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"Switching" to the frequency of Self Healing

We now know that our genes can be turned off and on and that they are activated by "switches" so instead of saying "it's all in our genes' we can also now say "it's all on top of our genes" ...and wi [ ... ]

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How horses can help us align to the new feminine

 “Violence against women”...a new perspective.... Our new consciousness will allow us to see  “violence against women” in a different light in that men AND women carry BOTH masculine (stron [ ... ]

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 “Violence against women”...a new perspective....

Our new consciousness will allow us to see  “violence against women” in a different light in that men AND women carry BOTH masculine (strong) and feminine (sensitive) traits as part of their “being”. Therefore we can only solve this problem when we stop seeing it as a gender specific issue and instead understand it as violence/abuse against the feminine PRINCIPAL...

We all carry these 2 principals within us i.e. we can be too controlling/strong/aggressive (deemed as masculine) or conversely at other times we can be too vulnerable, soft and submissive (feminine).

We restore harmony when we find a BALANCE... YIN/YANG...So whether we are victim or perpetrator unless we are on a path of self awareness we often project outside of ourselves these 2 polarities of masculine /feminine, strong/ vulnerable that we need to balance within ourselves.

 

Looking at it this way there is just as much violence against men when, for example women nag/abuse/control their husbands and sons. We see it when Mothers scream at their timid children who may be quiet and “sensitive’ but don’t DO things quickly enough when asked, or men in a group ‘hazing” new male recruits as a form of initiation or even when a female friend or co-worker becomes too “bossy’ and is not mindful of you when you are feeling vulnerable...these are all example of abuse of the feminine principal, or abuse of that gentle, sensitive part in all of us

When we understand it from a holistically perspective as a need to balance our energy we then see it as a spiritual lesson in order for us to find the natural order of things.

Working with my herd of life coaching horses at Holistequine I have come to understand that horses have this balance naturally so communicate discipline with an equal amount of love and authority. Order in the herd is paramount....because they need their herd to be strong to survive in the group...

 

Abuse is not always restricted to physical violence...it is just as damaging if it is played out at a mental or emotional level i.e. as control, manipulation and using derogatory remarks against someone....because these things are just as soul destroying as physical abuse...

Regardless of gender any time we interfere with (without being asked) and do not respect another person’s life path or try to influence or control them we are guilty of abuse.

 

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